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Queer Stigma and Mental Health: What LGBTQ+ People Face

Queer Stigma and Mental Health: What LGBTQ+ People Face

by Lauren Canonico | Jul 1, 2026 | Thoughts & News from ATC

Queer Stigma and Mental Health: What LGBTQ+ People Face | ATC Queer stigma is a documented health crisis, not a personal failing. Lauren Canonico, LCSW, explores how minority stress affects LGBTQ+ mental health. For those of us who’ve spent years editing...
Therapy for Neurodivergent and Trans People: What to Know

Therapy for Neurodivergent and Trans People: What to Know

by Lauren Canonico | Jun 10, 2026 | Coming Home to You Group, Sophie Kuhn Bedaña, LMSW, Thoughts & News from ATC

Therapy for Neurodivergent and Trans People: What to Know  What research says about therapy for neurodivergent and trans people, how it affects your mental health experience, and why finding the right therapist matters. Therapy for neurodivergent and trans people is...
Sex Worker Affirming Therapy NYC | ATC

Sex Worker Affirming Therapy NYC | ATC

by Lauren Canonico | May 6, 2026 | Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW, Thoughts & News from ATC

You Are More Than Your Job: Navigating Intimacy as a Current or Former Sex Worker by Lauren Canonico, LCSW and Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW Sex work is work. And like any work, it doesn’t define the whole of who you are. But try telling that to a culture that...
What’s (Romantic) Love Got to do with It? | ATC

What’s (Romantic) Love Got to do with It? | ATC

by Lauren Canonico | Feb 18, 2026 | Lee Warwick, LMSW, Thoughts & News from ATC

February is often a month focused on romantic love, but what about other forms of love? How important are they, and what role can they play in our lives? Join Associate Therapist Lee Warwick, LMSW to explore the different forms that love can come in, and the value...
Heated Rivalry and Sexual Intimacy | Affirmative Therapy

Heated Rivalry and Sexual Intimacy | Affirmative Therapy

by Lauren Canonico | Feb 11, 2026 | Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW, Thoughts & News from ATC

The new TV hit, Heated Rivalry, offers an intimate look into a budding sexual relationship between two male hockey players. Viewers of all genders and sexualities have swooned over the couple, lauding the focus on consent and emotional safety in sexual intimacy. Join...
Your Body Doesn’t Need Discipline—It Needs Protection | Affirmative Therapy

Your Body Doesn’t Need Discipline—It Needs Protection | Affirmative Therapy

by Lauren Canonico | Feb 4, 2026 | Sophie Kuhn Bedaña, LMSW, Thoughts & News from ATC

Join Sophie Kuhn Bedaña, LMSW in this invitation to pause, breathe, and question the stories we’ve been sold about our bodies, “self-improvement,” and discipline. Every January, the world gets louder about fixing, shrinking, optimizing, and controlling bodies—as if...
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    Turns out, watching two men communicate through co Turns out, watching two men communicate through consent isn't a threat to your relationship.

It's a blueprint 📃

Heated Rivalry has viewers of every gender and sexuality swooning over its lead couple, two male hockey players falling into a sexual relationship built on real consent and emotional safety on screen.

Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW, broke down why in Men's Health: why women are drawn to shows like this, and what straight men can actually learn from it.

Her take: "I love working with men and creating a space where they can be vulnerable and explore their feelings, things society says men 'shouldn't' do."

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Sessions with Sophie feel conversational, not clinical.

Less power imbalance, more room to actually say the hard thing out loud.

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    ✨️Sophie B's✨️ caseload is full of neurodivergent ✨️Sophie B's✨️ caseload is full of neurodivergent and trans clients who've spent years masking just to survive a system that wasn't built for them.

She doesn't ask you to translate yourself.

She meets you where you are.

✨️Sophie TS✨️ works with adult creators navigating intimacy, identity, and stigma most therapists can't even name out loud.

No need to "save you"

No judgment about how you pay your bills or who you love.

Different specialties.

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    What if the shame you feel about your work isn't y What if the shame you feel about your work isn't yours?

It was handed to you.

Internalized stigma doesn't announce itself.

It shows up as the voice that says you don't deserve a relationship that actually works 💔

The one that tells you the distance you feel from your partner makes sense because of what you do.

The one that makes you wonder if the hard stuff is just... your fault🤍

That voice isn't truth.

It's what happens when the world spends years telling you that your work makes you less worthy of care.

Research backs this up: chronic exposure to shame-based messaging gets absorbed ✨️

It looks like self-isolation. Depression.

Interpreting your own pain as deserved.

That's internalized stigma doing exactly what it was designed to do 🫯

Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW created Sex Work and Intimacy: You Are More Than Your Job because untangling that in a room full of people who already get the context is different.

Faster. More honest. Less exhausting.🤍

Wednesday evenings via Zoom.

$90 / 90 min | 2 sliding-scale spots at $25 minimum.

Current or former sex workers who identify as female or non-binary, 18+, US-wide, are invited to apply.

Complete the screening form to get started. Please note there is a $50 screening session fee and a cap of 10 participants for this group session.
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    You don't have to spend the first 20 minutes of ev You don't have to spend the first 20 minutes of every session explaining your job.

5 things I watch shift when sex workers finally have a space built for them:

1. The shame gets named. Internalized stigma isn't a personality flaw. It's what happens when the world spends YEARS telling you that you're the problem. 

2. The double life gets lighter.✨ Holding two completely different versions of yourself is exhausting. You don't have to justify that here.

3. Intimacy stops feeling like a contradiction. Spending your day in intimate spaces and coming home to disconnection is its own kind of exhausting. We name it here.

4. You get clear on what you actually want from your relationships. Not the version that's easiest to explain. The version that's actually true.

5. You start letting yourself be cared for.

✨I'm Sophie Talmadge Silleck, LMSW. This group exists because this conversation deserves its own room.

Wednesday evenings via Zoom. $90 per 90-min session and $50 for your 30-min client screening with 2 sliding-scale spots available. Capped at 10!

Female or non-binary, 18+, current or former sex workers, US-wide

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    🏳️‍⚧️ Being trans isn't the issue. 🌈 Being queer i 🏳️‍⚧️ Being trans isn't the issue.
🌈 Being queer isn't the issue.
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😍 Being fat isn't the issue.
👏🏾 Being Black, Indigenous, or a person of color isn't the issue.
💕 Being disabled isn't the issue.
💡 Being neurodivergent isn't the issue.

The world just hasn't built enough space for people like us yet.

That's not on you 🫶

DM us SEEN and we'll send you more on how we work with people navigating exactly this.

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    Research connects neurodivergence and gender expan Research connects neurodivergence and gender expansive identities more closely than most people realize.

When you've spent your whole life noticing that the world's rules don't quite fit you, you get really good at trusting what does.

That same drive for authenticity, that same ability to see through the bullshit of norms, is often what leads you to discover yourself and your gender story.

That might look like knowing your experience of your body didn't match the gender others assigned to you before you even had words for it.🩵

Or hearing your own voice clearly, and going quiet anyway, because the fear of being left alone was louder. ✨️

Or coming out later in life, once you finally found language that fit.

Or just always having a quiet, stubborn sense of self that you tried everything to ignore, because being accepted felt safer than being known.

The overlap between embracing neurodivergence and embodying gender expansive identities isn't a coincidence.

It's two versions of the same truth: knowing yourself from the inside out.

Our latest blog post goes deep on what the research says and why it matters for your mental health care.

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    A space that was built with you in mind from the s A space that was built with you in mind from the start. ✨️

Coming Home to You is a virtual group therapy experience for trans and nonbinary people navigating body image, eating disorder recovery, and gender identity.

Neurodivergent people aren't an afterthought here. 😊

Different communication styles, different nervous systems, different relationships with your body.

All are welcome here 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️ 🫂

Facilitated by Sophie Kuhn Bedaña, LCSW at Affirmative Therapy Collective. Available in NY, NJ, CO, CT, FL, MI, MN, PA, and WI.

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    You've been the strong one in every room. The one You've been the strong one in every room.

The one who figured it out, moved on, and made it look easy. 💔

Queer life asks a lot of you ✨

And most therapy WASN'T built with that in mind.

Ours was.

At ATC, every clinician specializes in LGBTQIA+ affirmative care, body, sex, trauma, and everything in between.

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